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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 25.06.2025 03:08

How does one succeed in life?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

That's it for today.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What I need from you?

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Would you let your partner cheat on you every now and again?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Ask yourself:

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

How do I confess to my crush who had a traumatic past with his previous partner without losing the friendship?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.